Most conversations will simply be conversations, but sensible precautions can make online dating safer. Protect your personal information, take your time and keep control over when, where and how you meet someone.
Keep personal information private at first
You do not need to share your home address, workplace, financial information or other sensitive details with someone you have only just met online. Be cautious if a person quickly pushes for information that is not necessary for getting to know you.
Watch behaviour, not just words
Pressure, repeated boundary-pushing, requests for money, inconsistent stories and attempts to move the relationship unusually fast can all be reasons to slow down. A genuine connection should leave room for both people to make decisions at their own pace.
Meet in a public place
For an initial meeting, choose a populated public venue and arrange your own transport. Tell a friend or family member where you are going and when you expect to be home. Avoid having a new person collect you from your home.
Stay in control of the meeting
You can end a date at any time. If something feels wrong, you do not need to stay to be polite. Keep your phone available, look after your own drinks and belongings, and have a straightforward way to leave independently.
Use reporting and blocking tools when needed
If another member behaves inappropriately, use the platform's blocking or reporting tools. Immediate danger should be treated as an emergency rather than a platform issue. FindMyPerson's broader safety information explains the controls we are building into the service.